Dresses:

I've pretty much decided to get this dress in red and have my two bridesmaids wearing blue peony and a green peony dress each. (How great do those colours look together?) :D I'll let them decide together which colour they want to wear.
I'd also love to have red and yellow / gold bouquets with some long red ribbons. I'm going to be hand making the bouquets myself using fake flowers since I'm allergic to real ones and I love the idea of myself and my bridesmaids being able to keep the bouquets as a memento of the day.

Red dress with gold neckline @ eBayRed dress with gold neckline @ eBay
Red dress with gold neckline

Red pheonix tail dress @ Taobao

Red phoenix tail dress

Gold phoenix dress

Red dragon halter dress

Red phoenix tail dress @ eBay

Red phoenix tail dress @ Bodyline
Shoes:

Floral red shoes

Gold red shoes

Patent red leather shoes

Floral painted shoes

Patent red leather shoes with a strap

High gold and red bow shoes

Red leather shoes with flower
Accessories:

Floral bangle

Jade necklace

Red and gold flower hair pin

Red hair flowers

Red butterfly hair pin

Red floral accessory set
Links:
Efushop custom-made cheongsam
Good Orient dresses and accessories
Hair pins
Qianese bride accessories
Cheongsam @ Taobao